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⚽️ The art of DM'ing coaches
How to stand out from the messages flooding coach's inboxes and receive a response.

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Key Takeaways ⚽️
Step-by-step guide to DM’ing coaches ⚙️
Next steps ‼️
Top gear 👟
(This newsletter is a 5-minute read in total)
Reaching out to college coaches through direct messages (DMs) can be one of the quickest ways to start a conversation about your future in college soccer. However, with dozens of messages flooding their inboxes daily, it’s essential to stand out by being professional, concise, and strategic.
Why DMs Work:
Over 90% of coaches use social media platforms like Instagram and Twitter to scout and connect with players.
DMs allow direct communication without needing formal introductions or lengthy processes.
Personalized messages show initiative and a quality coaches value in recruits.
Instagram
LinkedIn
Facebook
Twitter
Here is a video that highlights the preferred platform for social media college soccer recruiting per ZevFutbol, not created by Playmaker FC. It will give a good introduction to our DM strategy.
Social media recruiting is becoming more and more popular in 2025. We are going to hyper-focus on the DM aspect of social media recruiting and show you a sequence of messages you can send to receive a response.
Follow along below ↓
Step 1: Send a Video of Yourself
Video Script:
Introduce Yourself Clearly
Your name, position, graduation year, and current school/team.
Example:
Show Genuine Interest
Reference a specific aspect of their program, such as a recent accomplishment or playing style.
Provide Key Information
Include your highlight reel link (Hudl, YouTube, or Trace).
Add your GPA and notable soccer achievements.
Make It Easy to Respond
End with an invitation to discuss further.
Step 2: Bump Sequence
To make an impact, keep your message brief, informative, and action-oriented. Here’s a proven structure:
Maximizing Your Chances of a Response
Send DMs at the Right Time: Avoid game days or major tournaments. Instead, aim for weekdays during recruiting periods.
Follow Up Respectfully: If you don’t hear back within 1-2 days, send 3-4 polite follow-ups:
Bump #1:
Bump #2 - show some personality 🙂 (insert any GIF pointing up to the previous message)
Bump #3
Engage with Their Content:
Like and comment on team updates.
Share their posts (when relevant) to show your interest in their program.
Use a professional profile picture.
Include key details in your bio: graduation year, position, and contact info.
Post regularly: highlight reels, training clips, and updates about awards or achievements.
Next Steps 💯
Challenge: Send 20 videos to coaches this week
Send 20 videos to coaches.
Put them through the DM sequence of follow-ups.
Track in a Google sheet.
Are you ready to make an impression in a coach’s inbox? Start crafting your first DM today using the tips above.
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Social media platforms to use this strategy on: