⚽️ The art of DM'ing coaches

How to stand out from the messages flooding coach's inboxes and receive a response.

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Key Takeaways ⚽️

  1. Step-by-step guide to DM’ing coaches ⚙️

  2. Next steps ‼️

  3. Top gear 👟

(This newsletter is a 5-minute read in total)

Reaching out to college coaches through direct messages (DMs) can be one of the quickest ways to start a conversation about your future in college soccer. However, with dozens of messages flooding their inboxes daily, it’s essential to stand out by being professional, concise, and strategic.

Why DMs Work:

  • Over 90% of coaches use social media platforms like Instagram and Twitter to scout and connect with players.

  • DMs allow direct communication without needing formal introductions or lengthy processes.

  • Personalized messages show initiative and a quality coaches value in recruits.

Social media platforms to use this strategy on: 

  • Instagram

  • LinkedIn

  • Facebook

  • Twitter

Here is a video that highlights the preferred platform for social media college soccer recruiting per ZevFutbol, not created by Playmaker FC. It will give a good introduction to our DM strategy.

Social media recruiting is becoming more and more popular in 2025. We are going to hyper-focus on the DM aspect of social media recruiting and show you a sequence of messages you can send to receive a response.

Follow along below ↓

Step 1: Send a Video of Yourself

Video Script:

  1. Introduce Yourself Clearly

    • Your name, position, graduation year, and current school/team.

    • Example:

  2. Show Genuine Interest

    • Reference a specific aspect of their program, such as a recent accomplishment or playing style.

  3. Provide Key Information

    • Include your highlight reel link (Hudl, YouTube, or Trace).

    • Add your GPA and notable soccer achievements.

  4. Make It Easy to Respond

    • End with an invitation to discuss further.

Step 2: Bump Sequence

To make an impact, keep your message brief, informative, and action-oriented. Here’s a proven structure:

Maximizing Your Chances of a Response

  • Send DMs at the Right Time: Avoid game days or major tournaments. Instead, aim for weekdays during recruiting periods.

  • Follow Up Respectfully: If you don’t hear back within 1-2 days, send 3-4 polite follow-ups:

    Bump #1:

    Bump #2 - show some personality 🙂 (insert any GIF pointing up to the previous message)

    Bump #3

    Engage with Their Content:

    • Like and comment on team updates.

    • Share their posts (when relevant) to show your interest in their program.

Build a Recruit-Worthy Social Media Presence

  • Use a professional profile picture.

  • Include key details in your bio: graduation year, position, and contact info.

  • Post regularly: highlight reels, training clips, and updates about awards or achievements.

Next Steps 💯

Challenge: Send 20 videos to coaches this week

  1. Send 20 videos to coaches.

  2. Put them through the DM sequence of follow-ups.

  3. Track in a Google sheet.
    Are you ready to make an impression in a coach’s inbox? Start crafting your first DM today using the tips above.

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